Morning I woke up with my best pal's sms... "Y al seem vr unhappy who finished mys uni? Was der some kind cu
rse? I don understand whomever I talk they al complain abt life, cry from unhappiness, r u happy? ?" This is what Moon wrote to me! Well to answer this, I would say NO! But we have to evaluate this No, and ask why the answer is NO! Why all students whom we know in Mysore University are not happy after finishing their courses and going back home? We all should be happy because we have successfully completed our mission and are once again back with family and friends, right? It took a lot of time to evaluate this.
Remembering the days how we cried and longed to be back home soon, and hating our so-called temporary home like anything. And now why do we want to go back to the same suffering again? Why do we now tend to like that creepy place we used to call?
The answer is because at home we were living in a support-zone where we knew we are being backed-up with friends and families. Where we had nothing to worry about. Had family, friends, home where you have grown up, your very own people and the familiar surrounding where you can freely move about. And all of a sudden finding yourself in a zone where everything is alien, shocked us to such an extend that we never noticed the beauty in it, but just th
e negatives which with no-doubt all the country has. M I right?
While having this feeling, we became close to people who also had such feelings so that we could tittle-tattle as much about the place. And thats how we comforted ourselves and started to live.
But slowly without even realizing we even started enjoying the same atmosphere in each others company. We made news family and friends from across the globe. Shared our feeling, lifestyle, language, food and smile. Than we realized that Mysore University is just too awesome, it was just our loneliness which was bothering us, and it is actually a very beautiful place with a wonderful culture and tradition. But unfortunately it was too late to realize as it was time to say bye and go back to our real homes.
Now that we all are home, as a typical human behavior, we are still living in our past. We are now missing the wonderful memory which we all created together and missing our days back at Mysore University.
And why we are finding it difficult to get out of this so-called unhappy mood soon like we adjusted in the alien land? Its because as back at our own homes, we don't have anyone else to share the joy which we have experienced as a foreign community at Mysore University. Bet no one would ever understand the insane bunch of our memories, but its only us to cherish and love it forever.
Hope Moon I have answered your question. The only thing we can do now is to cherish that memory and live with the present, which yet again as a human its very hard to follow, but one has to take control over mind.
When memories are painful, it definitely means is has been sweet, because if u have an enemy, you would want to forget them as soon as you can and take them out of your life. But for a memory so sweet and happy, we would not want to miss it even for a glimpse, maybe thats the reason for sweet memories to be painful!
rse? I don understand whomever I talk they al complain abt life, cry from unhappiness, r u happy? ?" This is what Moon wrote to me! Well to answer this, I would say NO! But we have to evaluate this No, and ask why the answer is NO! Why all students whom we know in Mysore University are not happy after finishing their courses and going back home? We all should be happy because we have successfully completed our mission and are once again back with family and friends, right? It took a lot of time to evaluate this.Remembering the days how we cried and longed to be back home soon, and hating our so-called temporary home like anything. And now why do we want to go back to the same suffering again? Why do we now tend to like that creepy place we used to call?
The answer is because at home we were living in a support-zone where we knew we are being backed-up with friends and families. Where we had nothing to worry about. Had family, friends, home where you have grown up, your very own people and the familiar surrounding where you can freely move about. And all of a sudden finding yourself in a zone where everything is alien, shocked us to such an extend that we never noticed the beauty in it, but just th
e negatives which with no-doubt all the country has. M I right?While having this feeling, we became close to people who also had such feelings so that we could tittle-tattle as much about the place. And thats how we comforted ourselves and started to live.
But slowly without even realizing we even started enjoying the same atmosphere in each others company. We made news family and friends from across the globe. Shared our feeling, lifestyle, language, food and smile. Than we realized that Mysore University is just too awesome, it was just our loneliness which was bothering us, and it is actually a very beautiful place with a wonderful culture and tradition. But unfortunately it was too late to realize as it was time to say bye and go back to our real homes.
Now that we all are home, as a typical human behavior, we are still living in our past. We are now missing the wonderful memory which we all created together and missing our days back at Mysore University.
And why we are finding it difficult to get out of this so-called unhappy mood soon like we adjusted in the alien land? Its because as back at our own homes, we don't have anyone else to share the joy which we have experienced as a foreign community at Mysore University. Bet no one would ever understand the insane bunch of our memories, but its only us to cherish and love it forever.Hope Moon I have answered your question. The only thing we can do now is to cherish that memory and live with the present, which yet again as a human its very hard to follow, but one has to take control over mind.
When memories are painful, it definitely means is has been sweet, because if u have an enemy, you would want to forget them as soon as you can and take them out of your life. But for a memory so sweet and happy, we would not want to miss it even for a glimpse, maybe thats the reason for sweet memories to be painful!
1 comment:
U made me think a lot again, very impressive & deep thots u use...
U kno sumtimes its so easy to advice to do smth (tho we need that peice of advice sumtimes bt nt always) bt its hard to follow, u kno y, cuz one is nt in tat situation unless, cannot feel the reality wat we going thru..
u mite feel hard or sorry for the one who is goin thru really from ur heart, but unless u don experience tat situation, u bet me none can feel u better more than any1 else...
In breif, m trying to say is pain me or u or sum1 else is going thru is can be felt by one who was or is in the same kind of situation.
Everyone says 'East or west, home is best' but i'l confront to this saying now, 'East or west, bad or worst, better to hv sheltter wiz frnds around!!!'
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